Let me say one thing first: This post is NOT about marriage. This post is about being so stupid in love that despite all the pain, all the hesitation, all the paranoia, and all the resentment - u STILL go for it. Because all the rules and precautions are thrown out the window and it just HAPPENS. No matter what the question is, if u have to wait for an answer - then there is ur answer. Matter fact, if u have to even ask the question - u've already found ur answer. Love should be patient ... but it should not be taken advantage of.